External resources to help following a negative birth experience
Below are suggested websites, organisations and other resources which offer birth trauma support and which may help you on your healing journey. It's up to you to decide what support you need and if the person or organisation is right for you and your healing journey. Don't be shy to reach out for help and don't be shy to try another option if one doesn't quite work for you.
If you have a website or other resource which you feel would be useful to add here, please let us know.
Aotearoa/New Zealand organisations
Trauma and Birth Stress (TABS)
An information site which covers birth trauma and, specifically, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) associated with birth trauma.
Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Aotearoa (PADA)
Information around maternal mental health; lots of resources for health professionals and families, including a list of symptoms for various perinatal mental health conditions.
SANDS
SANDS supports parents & families who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy or as an infant.
The LITTLE MIRACLES TRUST
Supports families going through the stress of a Neonatal journey.
The Health & Disability Advocacy Service
A free & independent advocacy service to assist & support with health & disability complaints.
AIM - Action to Improve Maternity
An advocacy & consumer network which supports families when a birth tragedy has occurred. AIM helps families discover what happened, make complaints, interpret medical notes, claim ACC cover, etc., including a 24/7 helpline.
International organisations
Birth Talk
An Australian website. The women who run Birth Talk are also the authors of “How the Heal a Bad Birth” – a brilliant book about healing after a traumatic birth experience.
Facebook support groups
NZ NICU, SCBU and NNU Parents Support Group (when requesting to join this closed group, mention you saw it on the My Birth Story website and you will be added quickly by their admin).
Birth debriefing
HAVENING
Robin Youngson offers the new technique of Havening to shift trauma symptoms.
Robin’s graduates, Christine & Dee, offer Havening at Willow Psychosensory Therapy
PURE POSTNATAL BIRTH DEBRIEFING
Sarah, of Pure Postnatal, offers birth debriefing classes in Auckland.
Elise Molloy
Elise is a registered social worker who also supports those who've experienced birth trauma.
Therapy & counselling
healing birth
Specialising in birth trauma, Carla offers face-to-face (Tauranga-based) and Zoom sessions.
The Postnatal Distress Centre
This organisation, based in Auckland, offers counselling around parenting challenges, including traumatic birth.
MATERNAL MENTAL HEALTH
Government-funded, face-to-face counselling & support. See below for your maternal mental health regional contact.
Lifeline
0800 543 354 or (09) 5222 999 within Auckland.
This is a free, over-the-phone counselling service that operates 24hrs a day and 7 days a week.
Anxiety Line
0800 2694 389. Talk to a phone therapist who can give you support and help you understand anxiety and your experiences. This helpline is open all day, every day.
Depression Helpline
0800 111 757. Talk to a trained counsellor who can discuss your situation and find you the right support (tautoko). Help is available all day, every day. You can also text them (4202).
Suicide Crisis Helpline
0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)
Skylight
0800 299 100
This organisation provides support through trauma, loss and grief; 9am–5pm weekdays.
Parent Help
0800 568 856
This is for parents/whānau seeking support, advice and practical strategies on all parenting concerns. It is a confidential service.
Mental Health Foundation
If you need to talk to someone, freecall or text 1737. This connects you to a counsellor.
dr Sarah Bell-booth
Dr Booth is an Auckland-based psychologist who specialises in Maternal Mental Health.
DR KELLY KERRISK
Kelly is a clinical psychologist in Auckland and is experienced in family and individual therapy with a focus on Maternal Mental Health.
Kelly has also established Perinatal Psychology - a perinatal mental health service www.perinatalpsychology.co.nz
ANNA’S BIRTH SERVICES
Former birth doula, Anna is a registered health professional who specialises in hypnobirthing and birth trauma care. She is available in person (Wgtn) or via zoom.
resilience Psychology
Octavia Wilson is a clinical psychologist in Christchurch. She offers free group EDMR sessions for those who've experienced birth trauma.
BIRTH AFTERTHOGHTS CLINIC
Offered to those who birthed in the Canterbury region, this service is a debrief service with a trained hospital midwife.
All About Wellbeing
Dr Rebecca (Bex) Parkes is an Auckland based Clinical Psychologist who specialises in Women's Health - including birth trauma, chronic pain, and adjustment to chronic health conditions.
Positive Births
Helen Bartrom is a Clinical Hypnotherapist offering hypnotherapy, NLP and mindfulness tools to help release and process trauma. In person in Auckland, or via Zoom.
Nurturing Naturally NZ
Gaylene incorporates extensive nursing and neonatal knowledge with META Consciousness, EFT and Matrix Reimprinting to gently guide you towards understanding and resolving your birth experience.
Empower Mums
Dr. Missy Wolfman is an Auckland based Clinical Psychologist specialising in maternal mental health, including birth trauma.
Mother honouring & birth story listening
UNIQUE BEGINNINGS
Based in Manawatū, Unique Beginnings offers birth story listening - a safe space to share your story and debrief.
LUNA BLOOM
Nelson's Luna Bloom offers mother honouring services.
Honouring Mamas
Kirsty is Nelson-based and offers birth story listening and Mother-honouring ceremonies.
Ministry of Health
Maternal Mental Health: Regional contacts
Auckland: 0800 43 43 44
Bay of Plenty: 0800 333 061
Canterbury: (03) 337 7708
Counties Manukau: (09) 265 4000
Far North District: (09) 408 2490
Marlborough: 027 901 9807
Nelson: (03) 548 3555
Northland: 0800 333 783
Otago: Maternal Mental Health - (03) 474 0999 ext 8717, or ask for Julie Coverson; Otago Mental Health Trust - 0800 364 462 for support on your journey.
Palmerston North: (06) 350 8184 ask for Maternal Mental Heatlh
Southern District: 0800 443 366 ext 8178 or ext 8320
Taranaki: (06) 753 6139 ext 8963 or ext 8547
Waikato: (07) 858 0924
Waitemata: (09) 488 4634
Wellington Region, including Capital Coast, Hutt Valley and Wairarapa: 0800 745 477
Whangarei (covers Mid North & Kaipara Districts): (09) 430 4101 ext 3537.
For more information about support and services available to you, contact the Mental Health Foundation’s free Resource and Information Service on (09) 623 4812 during office hours or email info@mentalhealth.org.nz.
Make an ACC claim
Many physical birth injuries are now covered by ACC. Here’s the link to more information.
We encourage you to make a claim for a birth injury even if the injury doesn’t seem big or isn’t giving you pain/discomfort at this stage.
Challenges from many birth-related injuries don’t show up for weeks, or even years, but if you have a claim accepted by ACC, you are covered for life.
Also, if your claim is accepted, you are eligible for child care help, home help, rongoā Māori, counselling/psychology as well as medical treatment. Please ask ACC specifically about how you can access these.
Important note
If you are in crisis and fear for your safety, your child's safety, or that of a loved one, please dial 111 immediately.